Welcome and Speaking Engagement

Thanks to readers of my article in Today’s Christian Woman who have found my blog. Welcome!

I’ll be at Berean Bookstore on Saturday, January 27, at 2:00, giving an author talk based on that article, titled, "I Was a Food Addict."
I’ll be speaking and answering questions based on my story of losing 45 pounds–42 of which are still off!
My focus in the talk will be on what I’m calling "Shameless Self-Talk." I’ll answer your questions about the topic of weight loss, especially relating to how we talk to ourselves about it and also about the process of publishing. Join me at Berean,  2023 North Prospect in Champaign, Illinois.

 

God’s Closet

“There’s no bad weather, only bad clothing.” Spoken by a man who worked on the polar ice cap in weather ranging to more than minus 50 degrees, quoted in Al Gore’s companion book to the movie, An Inconvenient Truth. After my daily walk outside through Illinois

winters, I understand why he says that. We can endure any weather if we are dressed for it. At 30 degrees, I wear fleece-lined jeans. At zero degrees, I add long johns. Here, it doesn’t get a lot colder than that, but if I worked at 50 degrees below zero, I’d add several more layers.  It’s not our environment that is the problem. If we put on the right clothes, we can endure the worst weather the planet throws at us.

   

Similarly, it is not what happens to us that is the problem. How we dress ourselves makes all the difference. When someone gets angry with us, do we put on the garment of anger, too? When others laugh at us, do we put on the garment of shame? If we are mugged on a city street, do we don the clothing of fear? Anger, shame, and fear are the clothing that we provide for ourselves. God, however, provides a whole closet full of finer quality clothing that protects us when the weather turns cold. He gives garments of forgiveness, self-respect, and courage to shield us in the storms. Our attempts to clothe ourselves fall short. We need to wear his clothing when the weather rages around us.

Jesus, please take our old garments of anger, shame, and fear and fit us for your garments of forgiveness, self-respect, and courage.

Full Bony Impacted

I had really hoped to die with those last two wisdom teeth. My mother lived to 89 without ever getting her wisdom teeth out. My top two are okay, but those bottom two were “Full Bony Impacted,” like the title of a horror story. My adrenaline rose whenever I thought of them, lying sideways, pushing against the molars next to them. Most people face the orthodontist in their youth, but we had no money then and they didn’t hurt, so why borrow the money to feel the pain?

But when I finally began taking care of my teeth (I was well into middle-age) my dentists kept suggesting it would be good to get them out. I kept ignoring them. I kept hoping I could have it my way. But, no. Finally, in September, my dentist of several years handed me a referral saying, “Now is the time. You need to get them out before they get infected and decay the teeth next to them.”

“Okay,” I said. And I filed the paper on the top of my desk. I have a book proposal to write, you know. I can’t be taking time off to recover from oral surgery!

Then insurance intervened. I had to get it done before the end of the year. So, as of 13 days ago, I’m free of the horror story. Almost free, anyway. The recovery has been more painful than I expected, but I’m almost through it now. No more looming dread. No more fear of the oral surgeon. It’s done.

Life is full of those things we hope to avoid but finally realize we must walk through. The price must be paid. The hard thing must be done. To love ourselves is to will our good, as Peter Kreeft defines love. It is a good thing to be free.

Jesus, thank you for grace to do what must be done.